
Lily Trevino (Barbie Ferreira) is an emotionally raw young woman with a beautiful heart who spends her time suppressing her true feelings amid people pleasing and desperately trying to retain a relationship with her father Robert (French Stewart). It’s a hard slog especially given the type of irredeemable narcissistic shit of a patriarch she has been blessed with. When a date with yet another middle-age blonde goes horribly wrong, Robert blames the only person he claims has constantly ruined his life and severs ties with his only daughter, ghosts her – she is even threatened with arrest if she trespasses at his retirement village again.
Bereft at his rejection once again, Lily seeks therapy and a chance to move on. She throws herself into her work as a home-help for Daphne (Lauren ‘Lolo’ Spencer) and tries to forget the only parent she has. It works until she finds herself trawling Facebook and she runs a search on her father’s name and befriends another Bob Trevino (John Leguizamo) and a correspondence ensues. Actually, it’s more than that. It’s a beautiful friendship, a lifeline for both of them. Lily tells random people on the bus that “my new dad is so kind.” He is, although horrible at basketball and for Bob, Lily allows him to take her camping for the first time, open up about his deceased son who he shared with scrap-booker obsessive and champion Jeanie (Rachel Bay Jones), and impart wisdom – “We’re all broken. We all have things we need to heal from.”

For the cynical, this is a ridiculous premise for a film and in anybody else’s hands it may well have been but writer-director Laymon has first-hand experience of such an unlikely act of kindness. She and her Bob – despite never meeting IRL – had nine years of correspondence. Her choice of casting is also perfect. Ferreira and Leguizamo are equally as wonderful as the other, a perfect fit of chaos and calm, and earnest chemistry. Their supporting cast are great and are all provided with their own arcs within the overarching narrative. Stewart is pretty unrecognisable as the bio-dad and while his actions are incomprehensible, it is easy to render him sad too; hurt people hurt people.
Social media gets a bad rep and for all its trolls, toxicity and often ruinous effects on mental health – certainly more so since the M*sk administration of Twitter – however, there are pockets of the internet which are there for good. Think all those people who never fail to share the Tom Holland Lip Synch Challenge video or that woman who accidentally texted a complete stranger about Thanksgiving dinner… that guy is still an annual guest at her table. Tracie Laymon’s Bob Trevino Likes It is up there with putting a positive spin on the worldwide web and its multitude of apps – Natalie Morales’ Language Lessons (2021) also did something similar a few years back.
This film will warm the cockles of your heart and break it into a million pieces before sticking it back together again. There’s something incredibly powerful about a woman finally accessing her rage, asking for help when she needs it and ultimately saving herself albeit with a little help from a chosen family. Kindness costs nothing and this film hammers home the importance of this and the need for human connection, especially in a world which often leaves you disconnected and in the cold. Open your heart to it, it’s so surprisingly wonderful and lovely. Enjoy and proceed with tissues.










